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Lucky you! It's Valentines day and you're single. What a perfect
opportunity to get out there and make the most of the loving
season! We've
put together our tips for Valentines Day to ensure you have a great
time and make advances.
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with yourself |
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Celebrate
being single.
It’s
great being single as you have lots of freedom,
choice and time to explore and experiment with life.
When you are truly happy being single and embrace
your life as it is you will also be very attractive
to others! |
Tip
– Do activities
that are lots of fun for you, spend time with the people
you enjoy the most and enjoy the variety and freedom
that being “footloose and fancy free” gives you! Do
something you’ve never done before and benefit from
every second of your freedom!
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Be
confident.
If you’re clear how great you are, everyone else
will start to see it too. |
Tip
– get
acquainted with your greatness – ask 3 friends to tell
you the things that are great about your personality and
physical appearance then be generous and add 3 of your
own in each area. Write it all down and read it every
day. Just before you go out look in the mirror and
repeat all the compliments!
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Love
yourself. Spend
time developing a relationship with you. Look after
yourself with nourishing foods, peaceful sleep and
energizing exercise. This will add to your
confidence and self esteem (and make you look good
in the process!) |
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| Getting
out there |
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Get
out there and have fun. You
never know whom you’re going to meet. Accept
invites, make invites, bring interesting people
together.
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Flirt!
Make
eye contact, smile, and compliment them. It
really makes a difference. |
Tip
- practice,
practice, practice until you are comfortable flirting
with anyone you want to. You’ll soon expand your
comfort zone and be a master or mistress of mingling!
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Be
brave! What
have you got to lose? If you don’t do it, who
will? |
Tip
– find
a phrase to say to yourself when you’re feeling
wobbly. Something like “It’s not life or death” or
“Nothing ventured nothing gained”. And remember
practice makes perfect!
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But
what if they don't fancy you?
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It
doesn’t mean there is something wrong with you –
it just means THEY don’t fancy you. And why would
you want to be with someone who doesn’t fancy you?
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If
you feel sad, you feel sad. And
that’s ok. If you need to cheer yourself up, watch
your favourite comedy, spend some time doing the things
you love, or hang out with your favourite people. It
WILL pass.
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Be
prepared to be surprised –
you never know what’s coming around the corner!
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Better
to be happy on your own than in the wrong relationship.
You
have plenty of time to meet your Mr or Miss Right. |
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